Please tell me how to be closer to a friend that you've known for a really long time but you don't really want to spend actual time with her when it comes to it but you really love her and want to spend time with her and get closer to her but her bff since preschool is getting in the way and you really don't like the bff from preschool but they're both your bff's but you kinda want to spend more time with your not-so-close friend?

I NEED SERIOUS HELP