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My friend (girl) felt the need to end our friendship after I said a few things to her that made her feel uncomfortable. I tried apologising to her explaining that I truly didn't mean to upset her in any way, but she said she didn't want to be friends anymore.
We haven't spoken for about 2 months or so. Should I reach out to her at some point in the hopes that she might forgive me, again? (yes we've had a couple of arguments)
I really miss her and I want to make things right
What part of no do you not understand?
She is not obligated to accept your apology. Just because you said sorry doesn't mean she must change her mind..
What you wrote is that you didn't mean to upset her. That means you aren't sorry about what you said only sorry she got upset about it. You might want to rethink the phrasing of that apology then back the heck off and tell her to contact you if she changes her mind. If she does not, the relationship is toast. You need to move on and study the meaning of no.
What did you say that made her feel uncomfortable? Something that was a privacy issue. A Feminine private...thing...or something personal or insulting? Girls are complex, not a bad thing, but sometimes confusing-(I know trust me) You see, every couple has at least a few arguments. Don't reach out to her for a while, show her that you can change and that you will respect her and that you know what you did was wrong. Be respectful and make sure she knows you care for her -DONT BE WEIRD ABOUT IT!
---no. You don't make any comments about parts of her body any nasty or dirty jokes or anything. A simple compliment will do. You may be screwed already.
I made a few comments towards her that were of a sexual nature (a few about her ass) and she just told me that it clearly wasn't a normal friendship and decided to end it. I just went too far and crossed the line for the last time.
She recently got back to me and has told me that she has forgiven me but there just isn't a friendship there anymore and that I should forgive myself, seeing as I was so upset and annoyed at myself for doing that to her.
I couldn't just walk away as if it was nothing so I made sure I told her how sorry I was and that I still care for her so much even if she doesn't want me in her life anymore.
I just feel like such a horrible person and a total creep!