Hi, I am a guy in 6th grade and I have this crush. I have had this crush for nearly a month now. In the beginning of the year I overheard she liked me although I doubt she meant it. At the dance I asked her to slow dance and got a good reaction(I think).
After the dance, I overheard that there was this person she REALLY liked. But I didn't hear the name! Ever since I have been freaking out about who she likes! I really like her and it's killing me to not know who she likes! How do I find out who she likes without straight out asking her, or should I even try to find out? If she likes me, what is the next step to take besides asking her out? If not, then what do I do?!? Please don't say I'm too young!
Freaking Out!?
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Recently at school I did the "Clock Test" where I looked at the clock then diagonally looked away in her direction. Our eyes crossed! Is that a good thing? Also, I think of her about every minute of every day! Is that obsessive or something? It doesn't keep from getting good grades o distract me from everyday things but I still think about her A LOT!
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Recently at school I did the "Clock Test" where I looked at the clock then diagonally looked away in her direction. Our eyes crossed! Is that a good thing? Also, I think of her about every minute of every day! Is that obsessive or something? It doesn't keep from getting good grades or distract me from everyday things but I still think about her A LOT!
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Sorry didn't mean to duplicate that!
Added 3+ months ago:
Recently at school I did the "Clock Test" where I looked at the clock then diagonally looked away in her direction. Our eyes crossed! Is that a good thing? Also, I think of her about every minute of every day! Is that obsessive or something? It doesn't keep from getting good grades or distract me from everyday things but I still think about her A LOT!
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Sorry about the additional details! My PC bugged out and copied it a bunch of times!
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you shouldn't freak out and no your not to young, what you should do is 2 things first if you don't want to ask her stright out get one of your friends to find out for you if she like you or not and if that don't work go up to her and tell her how you feel and see if she liking on someone or if she like you
Dude. You like her. A lot. Don't obsess over her in front of your friends because at some point they will start thinking your crazy. That happened to me this weekend. I think she might like you. Don't pry. And don't stare at her all the time. Limit yourself to five times a day. Otherwise it's creepy. I think she likes you. Try not to date until high school though. If she says she likes you, tell her how you feel but also say that you want to wait until 8th grade before dating. If she truly likes you back, she will be willing to wait.
Take it from someone who knows.
From: a high school girl
First of all, NEVER get a friend to ask someone out for you, you will not look very confident and it won't even be a real relationship because you didn't get into yourself, your friends did. You want to ask her face to face because confidence is key, plus it will be harder for her to reject you :) Just truthfully tell her how you feel, it won't be so bad, because if she says yes, get you some, but if she says no, then you can know that she's not interested and you can move on. And do something really sweet when you ash her out, like give her a piece of gum that you know she likes, and have a slip of paper asking her to go out sometime (extend the parameters of when you should date so she doesn't feel smothered) I would like to tell you everything you can do but you'd be reading for a long time! You can tell if she likes you by reading about body language and stuff like that on the internet, and you can learn more about flirting on the internet... just be careful about where you end up when looking at that kind of stuff on the internet.
(By the way, I think 10 is too young to date because you're not pubescent enough to even contemplate a relationship of that intensity but if you really like her at an age at that and she likes you too then I think you should try it) Good luck :)