For name numerology we have to count initial or not?

Nothing matters in name numerology, it is pointless.
The name that parents give you and/or someone else arbitrarily at birth have no correlation to anything that ever happens to that baby when it grows up.
Try name numerology on a murderer and his victim and see if they had a compatible set of numbers, this is hokum, don't let some silliness ruin your chances for happiness.