Hello,

My grown adult roomate (40 yrs old) I am having issues with. We get along fine except she has taken things from me. Stuff in my room, food etc. First I was not confrontational then I was extremely direct saying she is not respecting me and it needs to stop. She finally stopped taking stuff in my room (i think) but still takes my food. The kicker? She has tons of beautiful things and her own food that is more nice and more abundant than what i have! She makes more money than me, and I was recently unemployed! She replaced things she has taken sorta....but now she tells me oh I ate some of your whatever...and in my head I'm thinking (why youre literally sick right now? Now im going to get sick if i eat after you) I finally just started throwing away things she has eaten to stop it. I cant afford to switch places atm because i live in an extremely competitive city and ive tried being so patient? Any advice?