So he is looking for a job and cant find one. been looking a year. its down to where he is ready to join the military and i will DIE if he does. just talking about it makes me begin to claw my eyes out. Im ready to call and threaten the recruiters and im not sure what to. hes sayin if im not ok with it hes gonna leave. my brothers been to iraq. I know what its like being away from someone months on end in the military and im not going through it with him. we been together 7 years (since i was 14) and no way im gonna let this happen. what do i do??
we stay at my parents and need to get life started but this cant be how.