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Please help!!
A straight friend of mine recently started playing footsy footsy with me while we were all crashing at his house, when I responded in kind he told me to stop it!! Feeling terribly embarrassed and totally perplexed I immediately did as he asked and turned the other way, only to have him put his leg over me again and repeat the cycle!!!
I am feeling totally used and betrayed!
How would you suggest I respond to this???
Thank you Kindly.
I am really sorry this happened to you. Just try your hardest to separate your self from him and his friends. I know this may not be much, but its all i got. I hope you get this all figured out, Let the friendship go,it will never be the same or comfortable for the both of you,It sounds like he is a user,very selfish and immature.Don't let this change you keep being the good person you are and make some new friends++Forgive him and move on.Use me and betray me once shame on you, me allowing someone to use and betray me, shame on me. My first impression with this is that you are trying too hard to get people to like you and you are not paying any attention to liking yourself. This action will usually bring people to use you and have little respect for you so betraying you comes easy. Once you show others you have a backbone they will respect you ;. Be strong and show them you are not going to take it.
Stop being too meek. Youre nice but you must also learn to defend yourself. They hit you, hitback harder. Dont know how, then spend the time you spend being sorry for yourself to learn how to fught back in words and in actions.
If you exhude confidence, people wint cross you. If you show "hey in weak and powerkess and you can ride me" then tgey will bekuttke you and rake you fie a ride not because you deserve it necessarily but because you let them.
Hi Mathew! Thanks for the reply!! You are absolutely right!! It's quite scary how much you are able to tell about me just by reading my question....wow!!