He has told me he thinks of me from time to time and that his wife is out of town and he then assumed when we can meet up by saying, "probably won't be summer until we can see each other". . .and I responded with "I hope it is before than. My husband and I can visit your city or you can visit our city and are welcome to hang out on any day you choose since I am not busy." I sincerely want to be friends but told my husband everything. I have asked him where his wife is to which he doesn't answer that question. . .but now since my last text, he hasn't responded. Is it possible that I have scared him off with my willingness to see him? Although he contacted me first by saying, "you keep coming to my mind lately. I don't know if it is possible but I would like to see you." so why now is there no response?