My boyfriend dumped me Friday. He and I are both in high school. He is graduating in 11 days, but I am a sophomore. He skipped third grade so that is why he is graduating so soon, but he is only two weeks older then me. Since he and I do not go to the same school we only saw each other once a week, so he said that was one of the reasons he broke up with me. Cause he said it felt like we were not really together cause we did not see each other enough. He also said he did not feel for me anymore, I would like to talk to him but it has been four days and he has not talked to me. I want to talk to him and I want closer, I have one guy friend that says wait a week another that said wait two to give him space. I do not know when I should try to make contact with him and why does he need time and space when I am the one that was hurt?
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I dumped my ex cos he was an asshole but i still needed space from him. I'm sure you're a really nice girl :) but i think he just needs to breathe after being in a relationship.. you should give him space, i don't think he wanted to do it either. even if you are the dumper, it's still hard.
question: why would you just wanna be friends? would that be that enough for You?
Make him feel and see to you that your not hurting, that's the only way you can show him that your strong enough to move on. Look around you and you can see guy that is better than your ex. Move on, show him that even it hurt a lot you become stronger and you can face the world with dignity and power thinking. Study hard bring out the best in you.
Ok I can understand that but how to become friends again?