I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years ... The thing is how do u get away from an emotional abusive partner, I broke up with him b4 but he put me threw hell it was like a living nightmare, he found out where I was and came down didn't leave till I saw him then he started guilt tripping, he told everyone I cheated on him altho I didn't,
He is very manipulative and controlling my feelings don't matter to him at all, he buys me something and then uses that against me ( I don't ask him to buy me anything ) he wasn't there for me wen my friend passed away all he did was play his xbox whilst I was on the bed in tears!! Pls what can I do I know he will go out of his way to find me I love him but I don't wanna be like this anymore I miss my family and my friends, we got into an argument last night he said that he hated me gripped my arm tight I have a few marks where he was griping tight, he got in my face and started guilt tripping me saying whatever happens will be my fault, he kept pushing his head against mine the thing is I headbutted him I thought he was gonna get violent, he didn't he just dragged me out the room... Now he's txting me but its not about me its all about him, how I made him go like that... What should I do he guilt tripping me a lot it hurts
Emotional abuse ?
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- 3+ months ago by tiana-2013
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- boyfriend, year, away, broke, emotional, partners, years, abuse
Answers (2)
I honestly feel sorry for you... That must have been a terrible situation..
Well, the only advice I could give you is to speak with a therapist. Make sure she is much older than you and has a lot of experience.
But, here is my advice to you, you should NEVER let a man get to you like that. You are stronger than that. Never show that you're weak, because then he'll feel overpowered and continue to emotionally abuse you. I honestly think you should leave him, it's not worth all the mental battles when there is probably a man out there waiting to treat you right. Love and care for you and make you smile.
I hope for the best of you, I honestly do. I also hope my advice will give you a little hope that there is always a way. That this won't go on forever.