When I was 8 yrs old (boy), a female cousin of age 16 used me to please herself sexually a couple of times and months later my oldest sister who was 18 yrs old at the time (10 yrs difference) did the same, used me sexually for over 1 year at least. All this of course with the enormous fear of getting caught, then she switched me for one of my male cousins (my same age). I´ve always had some personality and emotional dysfunction so I was wondering the long term effect, ways to improve on them, and if there is some kind of compensation I ought to get.
Effects of siblings incest between an 18yrs old sister and an 8yrs old brother?
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- 3+ months ago by alfredosa...
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sexual abuse, incest,
Answers (2)
Did you ever report her to the Police ?
She needs to learn what she did was
Morally wrong,Morally Irresponsible
Behaviour towards minors, Non - Loving
Behaviour towards her brother + cousin
AND ILLEGAL.
You need help.!! Personality,emotional,
trusting are only a few problems you'll
have. Try not to involve family ...go to a
counsellor.
Long term effects could be your relationships may be hindered or at least difficult to maintain. At such a young age subconsciously, your mind was determining the events around you at the time as a form of relationship. Some people who experience the same thing 'get over it' for lack of a better term. But others either can't or wont. I've been through something similar as you and I believe I turned out fine. I have a healthy relationship right now and my sister and I are on more sibling-appropriate terms. Let me know if you have any other questions about this.
I've helped others like us cope if they needed or wanted help and I'd be more than happy to help you if you need/want any.