I was recently dumped by my boyfriend of one year. Things were moving pretty well until I asked him to visit my place. Now I live in a pretty poor neighbourhood and in a poor house- my family has a pretty low income. Ever since he saw where I live, he stopped calling me and when I asked him what was wrong he said he just wanted to be friends. Later on I found out from a bunch of mutual friends that he didn't expect me to be poor and that was the reason for the break up. For me it was very hard finding out- it crushed me. I do not know what to do now, or how to move on. I feel like a failure- who would want to date me if there is nothing I can change about where I live, at least for now?
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Hey norry45,
I know it's hard, but you have to forget this ass-hole, he is NOT worth it. If he truly loved you, he would not care about your home-situation.
Deep inside, you know you deserve better then this! You should look for someone that loves you just the way you are, no matter how your home-situation may be.
And remember, because one person reacted this way it does not mean every guy you bring home will react like this :). The're so many different types of men out there,
I am certain you will find yourself a guy who loves you just the way you are ;).
Ps: Don't let this make you feel down too much, just remember how beautiful and what an independent and strong woman you are, it takes more then one man to bring you down!
I hope this makes you feel better,
Good luck,
Celia.
Don't let this guy get to you! If he can just dump you because you're rich he's not worth it! Don't let it get you down! Your income should not affect your love life! You deserve far better than someone that refuses to be with you because your poor! Be proud of yourself and don't let someone selfish get up down because they clearly don't deserve you!
thank you so much for the kind words! you made my day :)