Does she like me?

Question

Here's the story,

I started working at my new job about 6 months ago, and since then there was a girl that I am now working with that I seem to have fallen for. Yes she's beautiful, but that's not the reason I fell for her, I like her because she reminds me of myself, sometimes quiet, but sometimes energetic. and always caring.

We worked together for about 3 months and in that time, I've noticed her sometimes looking at me while I'm working, smiles at me, always says hi to me with a smile and when I say hi back she gets a bigger smile. 

About 3 months ago (around Thanksgiving 2014) I was put into the hospital after having an Heart Attack at a young age. During the event of the chest pains leaving me barley able to breathe I had to figure out a way to calm myself down, and the first thing I was able to think of was her, and it kept me calm until I got to the hospital and had surgery. I told her what happened because I thought it was the right thing to do to let her know that she helped me when I needed most even if she didn't know it.

So, I was out of work for about 3 months and during that time, we talked via Facebook and the conversations we're like we flirted a bit, but not a lot (I'm not to good at flirting lol)

I am now back at work, I still notice the same things with her, smiling, staring at times etc. What I want to know is if this means she likes me at all? Let's face it I'm bad at reading those kinds of signs, but I wanted to be sure she likes me before I ask her out on a date,

If you think you could help me that would be great and thank you if you can.

Answer

you never know, many women just enjoy flirting. I think there is a bit of symphaty there for you but I would not bet she has a crush on you. the first think you need to check is if she is single or in a relationship. If she is in a relationship she is just flirting unless that relationship is bad but this would be difficult to find out. if she is single then I suggest you just be a man - go to her and ask her straight for a date. if she says 'yes' you are in the right direction, is she says 'no' just say something 'oh, I am a bit disappointed I think I started to like you. nevermind, let's forget about it' and NEVER, but NEVER, show her any sign, just behave normally as nothing happened, till she comes to talk to you. If she likes you she will do that (you had already done the first step). If she does not, that's it, she does not like you. There is no way to get an assurance of her feelings than test them by yourself!

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You should get yourself together and ask her out. If she says no you would still feel good because you had the courage.

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She may like you, or she thinks your her best friend. Chances are she likes you.

Does she like me?

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