So I have this friend (Kristina). We're not a couple or anything, we're just friends. I would like to be her boyfriend, but I haven't asked her yet. So one day ago she told me that I ruined her relationship with her best friend (girl). I have no clue how I could have done that. Something about Kristina not telling her best friend about me inviting Kristina to be a singer in my band... I guess that best friend got pissed off because Kristina didn't tell her her everything about what she's doing. Never mind. Kristina told me that now she has no friends at school. She also told me that everyone thinks she is a *****. Because she's pretty, she's a soon to be model and so on. She told me that she is a Zero now. She kept saying that she's gonna go to another school. I said that i could be there for her. She said: "You're from the 11th grade! People are already thinking that we are making out somewhere." I said that rumors are bullshit and that she should just forget it. Does that sentence about us making out mean that she doesn't want to be friends anymore ?? I really need some help...
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You didn't ruin her relationship with someone else. She did. She's just not capable of taking responsibility for her actions. You had every right to invite her to be a part of your band, and her shouldn't care, and she probably doesn't care. Their friendship probably fell apart because of something else. Kristina sounds like she's being dramatic about not having any friends, and if she isn't, it's probably because either people are jealous or she's bragging about being a model and stuff. No one wants to hear that. They want to talk about mutual things.
Anyway, about what she said to you: it sounds like she's caught up in what other people think. But being with her could still happen, and she probably still wants to be friends. Why? because she talks to you about stuff that's happening.
Next time you guys talk about this, don't tell her to forget about it- use it as an opportunity to say maybe you should be making out somewhere. Be charming about it. If she looks shocked, just wink. It could work.
