I noticed this guy at work that was constantly staring at me. Eventually, he introduced himself. I keep a jar of candy on my desk and he drops by my desk everyday and has some. He also talks to me every day. Is he just dropping by my desk for the candy or does he like me?
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both i think he likes both the candy and you so if it was just the candy i don't think he would just stop dropping by so if you have candy its a great conversation starter how ever long that takes does he just stop once or is it through out the day and how long does he talk or come by the desk?
Thanks! I've never really thought about it that way. Maybe it is a conversation starter. What should I do next, wait for him to make a move or should I ask him to hang out?
It's kinda up to you. Maybe you could bring out for lunch or make a small conversation with him everyday ;)
Well usually he stops to talk once a day for about 5 minutes. But he'll pass by and say a quick hi more than once a day. From the day he introduced himself, it has been every single day.
Before introducing himself, he would just stare at me or he would smile and I was sure he was interested then. But now its hard to talk at work and I think that if it continues we're both going to end up in the friend zone.
I have a bit of a crush on him and I don't want to get hurt if he only thinks of me as just a friend. I also don't know how to show him I'm interested, especially because its at work and I don't want to be unprofessional.