Ok so I've had this guy friend since like the 4th grade we used to be super close not as much anymore (we're in 7th now) we've dated before and agreed to be friends after we broke up about 2years after that we were hanging out with two of our friends that were dating and we were sitting laying on top of each other in a small space and playing a bunch of weird kissing and getting super close games that my guy friend (the one who is single) made up so of course the two dating were partners and so me and my guy friend ha to be partners. After a little bit the couple left and I went into the room atachted to the one my guy friend was now in alone. He called me back and said "hey come here I need to tell you a secret!" And so I'm like ok ok and I sat across from him hes like nooo come here sit next to me an I'm like fine when I sat down he kissed me on the cheek! So then after a little bit I went back to why I was doing in the other room and he said "come back I need to tell I another secret!" So after him convincing me I said fine and that time he kissed me on the lips! After he left that day we were texting we both agreed we likes each other so I asked him out he said yeah at first then said let's wait till next month idk y. We ended up never going out next month! So it's been 8 months since that day he kissed me we still hang out sometimes I liked him for a long time after that day I just got over him and now we hung out the other day and he was like flirting with me and I was kinda doing it back we were laughing and tackling each other (there were other people there and we didnt do that to them) so then we were playing ghost in the graveyard and him and another one of my guy friends were both trying to catch me they out ran me and I got tagged behind a little hill so my guy friend the one i don't know if he likes me came up and whispered in my ear "RAPE TIME!" As a joke but then as I started walking away he said the same thing he said before he kissed me hw was like "hey jilly bean I need to tell you a secret!!" And I was like haha not falling for that again but it wa weird cuz we NEVER talked about what happend or even mentioned it at all and he said that in front of maybe 10 people so I think he might still like me a little bit but idk!!!! I really like him and I don't know if I should jut ask him out or wait cuz he is single right now! (BTW: No stupid "ohh ur to young for kissing and boyfriends if ur gonna say that then just don't answer the question k?) thaaaanks
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If you are really, really absolutely sure you like him, ask him out, but be wise and set your own boundaries. I'm a lot older than you, but to me age doesn't matter, your feelings do. I am concerned about him saying "RAPE TIME". That is seriously, seriously wrong,so set him straight. Best of luck to ya.