Well I've liked this guy for ages and recently i just gave up because you know he talked to heaps of girls and I'm shy so i only talked to him on Facebook really I've talked to him in real life only a couple of time I've hugged and kissed him once. anyway I stopped messaging him because he just started replying with one word answers an hour or more after i sent the message or he wouldnt reply at all! So i stopped all together and that seems to be working fine i always get urges to inbox him but i dont and hes always on my mind, and at school he's been looking at me a lot more and 9/10 ill look at him and hes already staring it makes he feel happy and warm inside but im not sure if he's staring for the wrong reasons or if he relised that hes lost me or maybe he likes me. not sure please answer soon.. P.S: Im 14
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The one word answers don't sound good. Boys sometimes pretend not be interested but they don't normally do it like that. It sounds like he's not that interested in you but is still looking to see if you are interested. It's either that or he is very intimidated by you and is afraid to make a move. I do know it's confusing but both things kind of look the same. If you want my hunch, though, I don't think he has the same feelings for you as you do for him.
Ahh, you're welcome. It sounds like you're doing exactly the right thing. I know it can be awkward and can take some time and there'll perhaps always be some small feeling left, but you will get past it. Hope the next boy you feel this way about also feels this way about you.
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question I have stopped talking to him and it been around about a month it was hard the first couple of weeks but im pretty much over him now i think i try to avoid him at school so there is no awkward eye contacts but sometimes i find myself looking for him hahah but give me a few more weeks and i should totally over him. Thanks for your advice :) xx