So yesterday was thanksgiving and friends of the family came and one of them happens to be this guy I like. He was teasing and playfully hitting me and being mean which I am kinda use to cause he does it on facebook also. But, sometimes I'll catch him looking at me and he'll quickly look away or when I look him in the eye, he'll look at something behind me. Does he like me? Why hasn't he said anything?
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This is my first thought, either he likes you or thinks your good looking but doesn't want a relationship. I know for me as a guy I will sometimes glance at a girl that I think is attractive even if I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm kind of guessing he likes you because he does this AND teases and hits on you.
Why hasn't he said anything?
Could it be because you guys are family friends and its weird to think of you as a girlfriend? Is there a significant age gap that would stop him from thinking of you as a girlfriend?
Here is what I would do in your situation. When he flirts with you flirt back, find good excuses to touch him and give him a lot of compliments, if you can be pretty obvious thats a bonus because us guys aren't as good at those social cues. I was pretty much on the other side of the situation a few days ago. I liked her but I wasn't really sure if she was into me because she's extremely pretty. I went up to her anyways just looking to try to talk to her and see how she would respond and she started flirting with me a lot. We definitely had a moment where we both could tell we liked each other and I'm planning on asking her out when we get back from break. Moral of the story, when he flirts with you (especially if its in person), flirt back and try to make your feelings clear.
Hope this helps.
That could be a factor. But if you are pretty obvious with your flirting he may start to consider whether he just likes you as a friend or as something "more." He may already like you but just be hesitant because of the families.
Okay. Thank you so much. I just hope he sees he could have a good girl in his life.
Let's hope so! Like the guy above was saying if you really want to you could say something to him. But I think many girls want to know that the guy they are with has the courage to share their feelings. So thats up to you. Good luck!
I think that the fact that his and my family are pretty close might be a reason and also he's not that much older than me. Maybe by two years at least?