I really like This guy who is 2 years older than me and we have known each other for 10 years and I do martial arts with him every two weeks. I do a lot of work with him because we are the same level and we have been each others partners since I can remember. We don't talk much outside of martial arts but when we are around each other he always looks back at me, on occasion he'll ask if I'm ok, smiles when I talk to him, His body is always pointed towards me and he's a really nice guy but he seems hesitant to start a convosation but this was a little earlier on when I came back to training with his club and also everyone (all of the adult martial artists mostly males) seems to think he likes me or will like me. His dad is one of my martial arts instructors and he is also my physio and he keeps bringing his son (my crush) up when talking to me or one of his colleagues when I'm at a physio appointment and that we are the same level but it probs don't mean anything...
So my question is do u think he likes me and what should I do about it, do I tell him?
Please help it'd be greatly appreciated
Ps I'm 14 and he's 16
And yes I'm a girl
Although I just get this feeling that he doesn't like me and I don't know what to do please help.
Does he like me?
Responses (2)
Ok, i am also 14 so i might be able to help, BUT I'm just gonna point out an obvious fact here. Yes he may be cute and yes you like him but he is two years older than you. If you are willing to accept that fact that your parents probably wont be comfortable with this, and that depending on the country you live in, he could do a lot more than you (and may have different motives) then lets move on.
Since he's really friendly towards you it could mean two different things, a) he thinks of you as a sister or b) he likes you but doesn't have the guts to admit it (no disrespect intended). If you really want to find out there are again, two ways to find out. Either ask him straight up or try hanging out with him more. See how it goes.
Good luck and fingers crossed he likes you.
Hope this helped :)
I would suggest putting a note in his locker or wherever he would find it. Write vaguely about yourself and how you've been wanting to talk to him. Im 12 but I understand what's happening.
Sadly we don't go to the same school he lives about an hour by car away from me
Thanks for the answer but I wasn't intending on dating him now if he did like me because it's not so bad dating a person a few years older when your an adult but when ur dating a guy two years older than you at this age alarm bells tend to go off and we live quite a way from each other so it wouldn't be possible to have that kind of a relationship at this age anyway.
Thanks for your response