Does he like me?
This guy and I played bball in gym nd after every game we played against each other he would tell me good game nd give me a high five nd we had an "all star" game the other day nd he would always pass me the ball instead of the other girls nd he would always give me a high five when we made a good play together nd afterwards we lost but he told me good job anyways. Oh and I suck at basketball and he is pretty good and now we are playing volleyball and we still aren't on the same team but the tides are switch. He always hangs around these two other girls in my class and talks to them and everything but he never really said good job as much to them even though one was on his team.
I've never had a boyfriend or a guy really like me so I don't know how to tell!! What should I do?
I've asked around and have gotten so many different answers so I don't know what to believe. I'm in 9th grade, 14 years old and a girl. I've been thinking of him a lot lately but I'm scared to think I like anyone because no one ever likes me.
Does he like me?
Responses (2)
Well, maybe he just wants to be a good friend to you. He sees that you suck at basketball so he doesn't want you to think much about it by saying "you did good" and stuff. Body language can really be used to know if this guy really likes you, so watch for these clues:
He looks at you a lot and he might lift his eyebrow he does. The eyebrow lifting usually last like less than a second, but try to see if you can catch it.
Check the the direction of his feet, hands, toes. If they're pointed to you, it's a sign he's interested in you, and he might not even be aware that he's giving off that sign.
If he likes you, he might rarely turn his back on you. If he's slouching his while he's near you, he cares about what you wanna say.
As already noted, a guy who is interested in you will look at you a lot, even if covertly. He may try to catch your eye or, if he's shy, he may suddenly turn his head away if you catch him checking you out. To test his interest, scan his face for four seconds, then look away (don't look any longer or it becomes awkward). Then look back––if he maintains or increases eye contact with you, he's interested. If his eyes wander to your mouth, he's definitely interested. If you feel like you have held eye contact just a fraction of a second longer than you would with anyone else, or if he looks away quickly, then there is something there. On the other hand, if he breaks eye contact with you and starts looking around the room, he's not interested in you.