please no your to young for this! i dont want a boyfriend. anyway, there is this guy that i liked since the end of Oct. he started liking me at the beggining of Oct. then i got in this fight with this kid and he started spreading rumors about me and made a hate club for me. and my crush joined that club! he was one of the first. later when the club ended, i had my friend walk up to my crush and ask him if he still likes me. he answered this exact "no, well.... Depends" then he walked away what does "depends" supposed to mean? then i had the same friend walk up to my crushes BEST friend and ask him if my crush liked me. his best friend said i already asked him and no he doesnt. im so confused! my crush glances at me every so often. he never comes to talk to me but he is REALLY shy. hes like a mini Liam Payne. he is also never mean to me. he totally always ignores me! but often if hes walking to the turn in basket, he'll walk RIGHT past my chair. does he like me? and what does '"depends" supposed to mean? i also had my other GUY friend ask him and my crush answered with a simple i dont know. what does this mean? does he like me? please explain. i would also like more than two answers to compare. thx
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>>>>I agree with Rudolph The Reindeer, Whiskers 1516. As to his shyness, you can help him come out of it. Never make him feel like you are taking charge. He still wants to be a guy and be the one in charge. That's a paradigm all over the world through all of time. Your success in this will be seen as he changes over MONTHS, not weeks. Sit back and be an observer also over the long range of days. That's going to be hard.
>>>>Help him open up his personality. You're not too young to like 1 guy specially, but almost; so, don't rush things even for yourself. You've still got 6-7 years of school to interact with boys.
>>>>I'm sure you also have things to improve on. Keep that in mind. The guys will be seeing you with your areas needing improvement too. Ask God to guide you. He knows what's best for you in the long run. Patience will be your sharpest tool.