i like this guy and he likes me. its been like 2 months. then, i get a text from him saying hey, can we just be friends? when i read that my heart just dropped. then i asked him if thats what he really wanted and he said no just trying to scare you. why would he do that? did he do that just to see what i would do? or maybe he really does just wanna be friends but was to scared to go forward with his decision? then i let that go. we were fine until my crush went over to the guy that likes my friends house. my friend told me that the guy that likes her and my crush had made up a code word that means my friend is hot. (im not gonna say her name) does he like my friend now???? i am thinking that the guy that likes my friend made that up and my crush just went along with it. (you know boys) but im not sure. does he still like me or are we hangin by a thread? i am planning on talking to him about it. I asked his friend who made that up and he said that they both did. im worried that he likes my best friend now. what do you think?
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I'm a guy and I've been in the same situation. Us guys usually like more then one girl so I honestly think you should go up to him and talk about casual things for a bit then ask him what he meant about about being friends. If he really likes you ask him out before its too late. I had two years to ask out a girl I liked but I was too shy but when I had the confidence I asked her and she turned me down cuz she was gonna
ask out somebody else. So remember when you approach him have confidence!
Good luck :)