Please don't give me a stupid, ignorant answer like ''All people do, its just genetics,'' frankly that is the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

Me? I've never been one to check guys out, single or in a relationship. I have never felt attracted to somebody purely from their appearance, without a connection, for me, there is no attraction. So when I am in a relationship, its the same. If someone was to say, ''That guy is so hot, right?'' I would be able to say whether they are generally attractive or not, but I never feel attracted to them physically or sexually, I just know that others would feel like that towards them,

My boyfriend tells me he is the same, and always has been like this.

So, my question is, are there any people on here who are similar to this? This is the honest truth, I just want to clarify that as I have read other forums where people say, ''Anyone who says they don't is lying,'' which is so unfair.