Do I live with my wife or get a divorse?
i think i am very unhappy about my arranged marrage. we have been married for 5 years now. i had little time to know her before the marrage. i am not physically attracted to her . we sleep in the same bed but dont have any sex. her ideas and mine totally different. i am 44 and she is 38 now. i know she loves me a lot, but i know if i live with her rest of my life i will be very unhapy.
i just feel sorry for her.
i am looking for patially separation as we..
please tell me what to do? do u think its a good idea to divorse?
same time i feel if i divorse what my family members think? will i be alone rest of my life
do i have to suffer like this rest of my life?
Do I live with my wife or divorse?
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i think you should stay with her as you can learn to love someone over time. if you communicate well you can grow together and develop common interests. i felt the same way as you did once, i looked at it this way. She was my best friend but not my sex partner, i made extra maritial affairs on the side and then came home to a happy family with no expectations other than i was with my best friend in life, my life partner, and its working out just fine, we have the occassional sex every now and then, life is what you make of it, just dont do any harm to others and no harm will come to you or your partner, be safe, play safe and be discreet without throwing it in her face. i hope this helps you in some way.