my mom is a heavy drug user and she always takes everything out on me. She dropped me out of school because she thinks im a doll she can just push around. Its my senior year and id like to go but i cant re register because im not 18. I was suposed to have back surgery last month but she cancled, i really need the surgery because i have bad scoliosis, shcuremans disease, and arthritis and i have a hard time sitting in class at school because i get stiff and i get sciatica. I have tried pleasing her, and i know what your thinking, your thinking its all my fault and i should get sent away, but really im a pretty good kid. I do good in school grade wise, im not an A student but im passing my classes. I used to be in many sports but cant because my back. I did most of the chores, i fed livestock, tended the chickens and worked with my 4-h steers. My mom calls me lazy because she wants me to wait on her hand and foot. I cant get a job because im on a no work order.(my back) she always steals money from me n my sister. My dad wants nothing to do with us and id like to leave but have no where to go since i cant work. My mom threatens me all the time. Like killing my horses, my dogs, and taking me out of school. I was always in sports so i could just get away. I always took our track team to state because i was the top runner but i could never go. Now shes making me see a psychiatrist so she can get the medication. I said i dont want to go anymore and now she says she has a court order or something and shes guna convince the judge to send me away ): i want to leave but i dont because im trying to get a place with my boyfriend and id like to graduate here with my friends that i grew up with! ): but what i would like to know is if i leave tonight(the court thing is tomorrow) for Circle(where my boyfriend lives) will i get in trouble and will the cops be involved. And yes ive tried telling
the psychiatrist how my mom is but they treat me like im the bad guy, like im a murderer ): im 17 and i live in Montana. Do i have the choice of not going to the court order or do i legally have to? And PS my boyfriend has nothing to do wuth te way my moms treating me. She steals from him too.
Do I legally have to go to this court order my mom has?
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- 3+ months ago by sharbono2...
- Topics:
- mom, court
Responses (1)
i'm with you on this one. your mom had no right to take you out of school in your senior year. i think she needs some major help. i think she also had no right to cancel your surgery. i think right now her drug problems are making her do things she wouldn't do if she was sober. you can re-register when you're 18 and finish school then. so don't give up on that. i also think your mother should be the one seeing a psychiatrist not you.
if you have a court order then yes i would follow it. even if you didn't do anything wrong you should do what it says. i would also try talking to the judge about what's going on and everything that she's done and said to you. just be honest and cooperate with the court.
that's good. the more friends you have on your side that can help will make this easier for you. you should try to get at least one or two more of your friends that can confirm your side of the story. it'll be more convincing that your mother is manipulative and does things like take stuff from you and your boyfriend, the fact that she threatens you ect.
if you haven't done anything against the law, you cooperate and be honest with the judge then yes you should be fine. again try to get at least one or two more friends to help. it does make a difference.
and i know what it's like to not have a father around. i never knew mine.
Thank you. I was also considering the GED, but i think finishing highschool would be best. I just heard her talking on the phone and seeing the judge is about juvenile court or something. She manipulates people to get what she wants. I dont want to get sent away and my boyfriend might come down to tell the judge how my mother is so i have someone on my side. I should be fine right? I didnt do anything that i should be punished for. And she is trying her hardest to put me on probation. I dont understand why she is doing all of this, it costs money, something we dont have. ):