as my previous question i have told that my relationship wid my bf was going on a rough path.... he didn't understand what he wanted to do... his dad is nt well n in dat case he remains depressed n half a tym toks to me in a rude manner i was fed up off dis bt still i managed to tok politely but now we are not toking to each other.... we rarely tok to eachother in facebook....
n right now i don't undrstand whether to wait for him or just let him go...... i love him a lot n cant imagine my self with anyone
n yes right now we are more like strangers n we are nt tokin to each other but on my birthday he called me up at 12:00 night n he wished me.... i took it as a formality like its normal to wish me on my birthday as everyone does so he also did....
but then on my bday he send a text again asking me how was my birthday n what all i did? i replyed him saying it was gud...
den dis month i saw his fb status where he wrote he was going to south africa for his ofice work for a month or so... i didn't comment or like it n i went offline den after two days he calls me to tell dat he is going to s.a n tells me to take care n all....
i don't understand whats in his mind.... he loves me or wat it is...?
may be m thinking too much bt dis breakup is killing me i can't concentrate on my studies or any thing... n moreover i just can't accept the reality n a part of me still wants to wait for him.... i love him a lot...
n now m scared dat as we are not talking to each other n if any other girl comes to his life in between this time... dis thought is killing me but now i have stopped begging him to come back...
i just nid some one advice as what should i do in dis case.....
thank you....:(
Depressed?
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- 3+ months ago by pooja19
- Topics:
- path, dad, wanted, rough, relationship, question, relationships
Answers (1)
What's ur age and his age, imagination may lead U to anywhere, so don't imagine anything yourself. Talk to him, without feeling anything, U can talk in a same manner, how U asked here. Say these are the instance which made me to think in these way, U R behaving like this is there any reason behind this. Having idea of marrying me or not. If he says no, pls come out, don't try to explain I love U so much and all
Do U have chance to talk with him.
yes but only by fb
If U both want to join, it should be a mutual relation, U alone can't take all the pain. Just ask him, do U want to continue. If he say yes then continue or else drop fully. If he says no, ask him the reason, if U found it's not going to happen just drop fully. Don't keep in touch like half cooked.
Me too having contact by fb only. I left then thinking, if she wants to marry me, let she call me. Because tomorrow any problem comes she will say, I was likely to withdraw from you but U seems to be so much loving at that time, and now U R behaving bad. Every blame will come on us. There will be no peace in married life.
ohhh god is it so....? i thot every thing is fine between u guys n all dis while i was waiting to hear some thing from u.... don't worry every thing will be fine c will understand n will come back to u just hav patience....:)
n about me i hav told him many times to come back infact begged him to come back to me bt he says we hav had lods of fights n i hav hurted u a lot so i dont wnt to hurt u ne more n after this fights m nt sure whr our future will lead us....
right now i hv stoped begging him n hav stoped asking him to come back to me..... if he has to come then he will definitely come....
n right now my friends are repeatedly asking me to move on bt i dont knw i just dont want.... its tough for me to acept the reality... may be with time i will forget him...
Same story, what's ur age, what R U doing, what's is ur future plan, I know U can't say this in forum. If U wish U can mail me. sureshmuthuswamy1986 gmail.com, if U have age and time, U don't even mind that one.
i hav send u a message on ur fb account..... check it
No friend, I have not received any message on fb. Now any improvement.
nopes no improvement.... it will take a lil more time i guess....
n yes i did send u a msg on fb.... check out ur msg on the other files.... it wud be there....
btw u r name in fb is suresh kumar right?
There may be 1000 sureshkumar. Wat da? Ok fine. Now I am at edge of wall. The gal I love also keeping mum. My parents are asking me to marry some other gal. I can't understand whether she's saying to wait or wat she's saying.
ok m sendin u a frnrequest check it
ok high time u nid to talk to her what she wants.... just ask her straight what does she want? n tel her your parents want u get married to some one else....
i hv nt send u any friend request bt again hv send u a message... just check ur OTHER MESAGES of ur message box in fb.... n u r wearing a light blue shirt in dat pic..... m i r8?
My profile: sureshkumar working in Larsen & toubro Feb 14. Ya blue lined shirt with coolers, in calicut railway station
I tried in all way. To everyone she's saying that I want to marry Suresh. But to me she's saying to marry some other gal as per my parents wish. Wat should I want to do now
K i am sleeping goodnight
The purpose of Facebook chat is to know age and bla bla only
i hope u knw it nw bt still if incase u dont knw den m teling u m 20 n m a student
The basic eligibility for hearing advice is U should belive the person who's suggesting some idea or else, it's like a advice from person just for the sake of hearing. Anyhow my suggestion is to study. I don't know about U and ur bf. It's ur life U have to make it sweet. The guy whom U where in love wants to quite from.
hmmmm i knw..... right now m just staying shut i dont hav words to tell him.... if he has to come den he will definitely come
Hope U R in 2nd year, finish ur studies. Ur environment will change automatically U will get changed. All the best......
hmmm yes m in 2nd year n lets c what happens.....
thanks for ur advice.... realy apreciate it.... thanks...:)
we hav had so much misunderstanding n his behaviour r so rude i cant tel u..... i ws constantly teling him dat we sud sort out evry thing bt i think he is not intrested n now from past 2 months we are not toking to each other nly rarely.... n m so scared n hurt by his behaviour dat i dont want to see those rough behaviour again.... i dont want to increase my pain.... god knows wat god has in store for me...:(