I am in my 40's and I met a guy who is 42 he is a pipeliner and has to travel for work . We had our first date it was perfect we went to the zoo and had dinner at the outback and on the way home we went to the lake and watched the sun set as the sun set he kissed me. then we kissed and kissed on the way home he was like I am a gentleman and am not gonna sleep with you on the 1st date LOL but I still want to . ( I wouldn't have FYI) we talked then he went on a trip to see his brother and was supposed to be back Sunday of the next week and we were to meet u p I never heard from him . Finally on Monday he texts me to call him I did and he had been called to another state to work and his fone was messing up and couldn't dial out. . While he was on that job we talked then he called and had been moved to Ohio During tall this he called me and told me I could call text or call anytime I wanted to and that he wanted to start something with me and see where it went . I suspected he had been drinking so I asked him the day and he confirmed that he meant it . He is supposed to be home the week of oct 22 and we are supposed to get together that weekend.
Problem is he doesn't take the initiative to call or text first . I do he will return texts and calls and sometimes he says he will call back and doesn't ... I just wonder is he still into me or is he that busy ??? or what?? I am really attracted to him and think he would be a great guy to date and more.... HAs even said he wants to meet my daughter and let her get used to him I am just so confused HELP
Dating when your older your still unsure?
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- 3+ months ago by Texast
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- work, first, travel, dating, romance, perfect, guys, older, pipeline, guy
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you got to basically see where it goes once you meet up this could be something that occures on a basically it might be that he is busy doing what i couldn't tell go back and think is this how he has been sense you first started seeing him i would ask him if he is in to you as far as taking initiative this is what i would ask how come he doesn't take the same initiative as you do when it comes to keeping in contact
before the first date he called then also he did the good morning text . I talked to him last nite he was going to go eat with his son who works with him and then call me back he didn't .. I sent a text saying guess you for got to call me back headed to bed gnite ... nothing when I woke up this morning