... more than others, im a white guy and since ive gone through my teenage years. asian girls seem to catch my eye. ive tried speaking to my parents, but they still are very opposed to interracial dating, so its rather hard turning to someone for help. im in my early twenties now, thoughts of travelling, dating and even marriage have come across my mind, but its rather hard accepting i have an attraction towards a particular race and just letting it be, its always in my mind, and i always want to talk about it. can anyone give me some advice? ive asked some friends and they say, it will happen naturally,im not sure if falling in love is something that happens by "love first sight" or by getting to know someone more,since im "physically attracted to asian women, does this mean my potential "partner" is more likely to be from an asian background?, im wish i could have a meaningful relationship with someone im attracted to, and not entirely based on a ethnic group. this is a rather sensitive topic for me
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If you are dating for the first time. You may not even realize just what it is that entices you about someone -- it could be his appearance, his personality or perhaps even his profession -- but time and time again you find yourself with mates who are very similar.
But may differ, if you are looking for a long term relationship, ask yourself how that dating pattern is working for you ?
If it's not having positive results in your life it might be time to face the fact that you're choosing the wrong type of person and to try to open yourself up to people who you wouldn't normally be interested in. At the very least you could strike up a new friendship.
You might be asking yourself ,how do you get your head around the idea of meeting someone new?
Ask yourself: When was the last time I did something for the first time?"
Life is all about experience. Get out of your box. You may love it, you may hate it, but that's what living is all about -- taking risks and learning through experience."
I’ll cut it short and ask you to start off as a friendship with Asian type that you are attracted to, know how its gonna work , then trust , you’ll get the feeling
Best of luck
Moon
I agrre !00%