Hi guys,
I'm really confused right now and I need your help! Basically I've worked with this guy for just over a year now. He's a good laugh and we get on really well but lately I've been feeling differently around him.
He always seems to pick on me a lot, don't get me wrong he's just joking around and we enjoy the odd banter but everyone seems to comment how close we are and we act like a married couple. This didn't bother me at all until recently when we had a photo taken of us all and someone commented how 'cute' we looked.
I sometimes wonder if he feels the same, does this sound like he does?:
He always picks on me infront of the other workers.
When I had a problem with my car he wanted to help me out.
He emails me silly things like when I'm angry or sad he will always send me funny pictures to put a smile back on my face.
I've caught him looking at me and smiling on several occasions
When we get visitors and its a pretty girl he always makes a big deal about it, whether he does this when I'm not there I don't know. And when I do it with guys he takes the mick and says something like he's about 12 or he needs a hair cut.
If I take it too far with the jokes or get annoyed with his, afterwards he looks hurt and goes quiet
Also sometimes when he asks me a question I answer sarcastically or with an insult so its not obvious I like him. Nothing can happen between us because we're both in relationships and we work together, but seeing him everyday it's driving me mad and I can't stop thinking about him. Please tell me these feelings will go away! I don't want to ruin my relationship over a crush that will never be anything serious!
Sorry I know it's a bit long I just wants to paint the picture for you, and if you have any advice it's much appreciated :)
Thanks everyone x