i know people don't like talking about this but i'm going to ask anyway.
i'm (22) and i have a cousin who is now 18. i've loved her as a cousin and as i would if i were her boyfriend for quite a few years, and i'm not from the south by the way. my family i think would never approve of that kind of marrige. i'm not wanting to marry her right now but i think it be cool just to date and develop a closer friendship and if it came to sex i would want to try it with her at least once. i haven't told her anything about this mostly because she just got engaged a few months ago. so now this is basically a hypothetical question. i'm not hoping her and her new fiancée break up i think he's a cool guy, better than her past boyfriends. but when her and i were kids we always talked about being roommates one day but of course that didn't workout. the roommate part is what got me thinking about dating... bottom line of the story.
Cousins in love?
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Unbelievable: Same thing for me when I was about 14-15 yrs old.No one ever told me cousins can't be girl friends. We were in a rowboat kissing when a shout from an uncle interrupted us.Her & her sister was staying a spell with us during summer vacation until that happened & they sent her home & wouldn't let us be together for several years after that.It was for the best but though haven't heard anything about her in years, I still love her & glad we did not mess up which we would have cause we were never told it was a forbidden thing. I had to fight to control my emotions and won.I loved her and wouldn't do anything to shame her & the families.We both wanted sex and are glad now that it never happened. You need to realize what I had to the best that you can.If not & you mess up both will regret it forever.
no offense, but some of the experiences i've had are things most families wouldn't know how to handle or even tolerate. i never really got to be a typical teenager but those experiences are what made me who i am today. being a typical teenager sounds boring to me anyways. i never cared for school dances or the prom i didn't even go to the graduation ceremony. anyways i've never been one to have alot of friends i'm comfortable with just two or three.
Experiences: So have I & same with friends. Very few now,lost many when $$ ran out & took on a dangerous undertaking to protect kids.I will be your friend if want.Just E-mail me.Suspect we would be real cool if in same city.I'm your friend although prob never physically meet unless destiny leads you to here,but prob 10,000/1odds bur be welcomed.
nv is the only place i really know. i don't think i'd ever be comfortable any where else. i know reno can get kind of boring and lonely without much friends but my family is here that's good enough for me. (home is where the heart is.) and reno is the only place i've enjoyed living in. no offense but but i never like getting too close with online friends.
so do I, but don't seem you should have any problem.I see you as one who would be a great friend.Got stopped at kissing but we both wanted to & planned to go all the way.It's yet in my memories.I have no doubt.I've seen much about you & similar experiences in life to know I'd be happy to be good friends as your the kind I would consider close friend,but no one I've met in Dallas that I can say same. Don't under estimate yourself.You have valuable qualities for a friend(Don't get swelled head,but you do).I would be proud to be friends but a pain IA not seeing web friends in person.Not used to these computer things.U be my friend & I gladly do sane.