So I have been dating this girl for a couple months now. Last weekend I took her as my date to a destination wedding so we stayed in a hotel and everything. She met some more of my friends for the first time. The wedding wasn't great, kind of boring, but I thought we still had a good time together. See has liked all the pictures posted on social media so it doesn't seem like she was trying to back away from being associated with them.
I was hoping to get together this week and ask her to officially be my girlfriend. I knew she was going to be busy this week with prior engagements but I also feel she hasn't made an effort to see me either. Our text messaging has been much less this week, I have had to message her first every time, and her tone towards me has changed it seems. We message and its fine but she hasn't called me babe/baby which she has done a bunch before, and when I say I miss her, she hasn't acknowledged it or said it back like she did even a week or so ago.
I made one effort to get her on the phone/video chat but she said she couldn't cause she was on the bus but then didn't make an effort once she got home. She has liked posts i made on facebook and comments on things she has posted. So I am just confused, it might all be in my head or there might be something to it, but it is eating me up inside, so I need to address it. Even more so with teh holidays coming up, I can;t have this on my mind 24/7 like it is now. I am the type of person that gives 100% when I like someone, which isn;t often as I have dated tons of girls the past few years since my ex and I broke up.
Am I crazy? How do I bring it up without sounding completely insecure and nuts, cause I know I am not that way but uncertainty is a huge weakness of mine. I am hoping for a womans perspective of someone in the 20s/early 30s dating scene. HELP!