So I had a thing with this guy and we did stuff but he never asked me out so I was sad caz he wasn't really talking to me. So then I told him I'm fine if we're just friends(even though I still want him). He said ok. Then a week after that which is today I asked him if he wanted to hangout at my house, so he did come over and we talked a lot which was nice but the weird thing is he didn't make a move even though we were alone. He always makes a move and I let him but he didn't, which wasnt like him. Then before he left he gave me a hug and kinda grabbed my butt. I just don't get why he didn't make a move. And I know he is intrested in me but doesn't want to date . Please help! Also he said we should hang out again next week and maybe through a party at my house since my parents would be out of town.
Confused about this guy? Please help!?
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- 3+ months ago by lemonsuga...
- Topics:
- talking, fine, kiss, confused, stuff, guys, sad, guy, highschool crush
Responses (1)
Honey, don't settle for less! Do not hook up with him again unless he makes you his girl. That is setting yourself up to be used. Trust me I know. If you like a guy do not put out for him unless you are in a long term committed relationship. I am saying this from experience! No guy will take you seriously unless you challenge him and you respect yourself enough not to be easy. Every time I made a guy hold out, he has come back later saying he loves me. If not, then he was just looking to use someone to begin with. You deserve better! Focus on other things and ignore him and watch him come to you. That is, if he really likes you to begin with. If not, he was never worth it! Stay strong!
I wouldn't. Hold out until he is treating you much better. Or find someone new who treats you respectfully.
Should i not hang out with him again then?