... pay child support now he doesn't like my mom or see her any more because of what my mom did . Cause he won't even want to come for the holidays and he was with us last year and I just want thins back how they used to be
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i'm sure that you want that back but sometimes it takes the bigger person to say lets put it all behind us and start fresh this would be the greatest thing but it takes a bigger person to say that i forgive the bad things lets put this behind us and take a step for ward no steps backward what did your mom do if you don't mind me asking he hasn't put it behind him he is still angry it may take some time for him to get right with it
My dear, your dad can not be upset because he has to pay child support - he might be upset if he was ruled to pay some excessive child support. I understand you are a kid - it would be difficult for you to understand but sometimes people just seek revenge in such situations. Your father is not angry at you but at your mom and this can last - he does not come to you/does not want to spend time with you because he, simply, can not see your mom, it is not because of you. Hard to explain how this happens, but it happens. I shall be direct with you - you need to be strong about this - the chances that they will be back together if the relationship reached the stage you describe are rather low. But I am sure he would like to spend some time with just you, try to seek those opportunities when you can be together alone, without your mom around. Both love you, it is just between themselves - the time will calm down the anger and gradually things will be better. It is an adults issue do not be hard on your self!
My mom put child support on him