This guy is 1 year older then me, we knew each other when i was 14 and him 15. We started getting closer to each other when i was 16 and him 17, we eventually became brother and sister. He lent me his jacket when I'm cold, i've met his family before, he put his hands around my shoulders too... I told my friends about this n they say he likes me. I took some love quiz, different quizzes same answers, it all says that he likes me. I'm still unsure of my feelings though.. He is important to me but that's because i treat him as my brother, all my friends say we like each other but both of us deny it.. He says he treats me better than his real sister.. What should I do? Is he hiding his feelings? Does he like me? He gets angry when i mention about my first crush tho and i was a bit sad when he mention his ex-girlfriend..
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In my honest opinion, I think he does have some feelings towards you. Unfortunately for him though, he appears to be very confused about them. He sees you as his sister, but at the same time he's wishing you were something else. Of course i'm just going off what you've mentioned, I can't be certain for sure but from personal experience... I think he likes you and he's in denial about it aha.
There's plenty of reasons as to why he could be in denial, the most likely is because you're like a sister to him. He doesn't want to ruin what the two of you have, he doesn't want to see you in a different light but at the same time he can't stop himself from doing so. I also think because of the way you treat him (like a brother) he is even more at odds with himself, at this point in time he's probably questioning whether or not you like him as something more than a friend and if it's possible if you ever could. He's just confused, it's completely normal. 8D
we have already stopped talking.... im angry with him.... tbh he doesnt like me and thats de fact...
Well i agree, it does sound like he likes u. People are different, but i would say u hav 2 options. one is to ask him if he likes you. the second option is to just wait, because time will tell. I asked when I was in this situation, and he said yes, but you may prefer to wait. either way i wish u like ;)
Sara
I agree that people are different but, I told him the quiz and i hint to him that he was the guy. Every time he's with me, he would say wheres all the pretty girls. At first I told him n asked what should i do? He say ask him, i replied i confess before but he rejected me, so i know he would say no.. Then, he say that was last time and this is now... I was thinking 'the guy is you, would you really tell the truth now? do u like me or just normal?' I was afraid of hearing the answer, i don't want any awkwardness between us. After he knew it was him and i said don't tell me the answer because i don't like anybody, he just replied with an Ok...
why would he deny it? Isnt it normal for people to have lingering feelings for their first love?