Okay so I've liked this guy for over a year now. I have barely said a word to him before. Yet i don't know I think I just feel something. He's considered one of the popular guys at my school. I am really shy sometine, so I'm really in the middle not a loser but not popular. My crush hangs out withs girls all the time. Popular girls. But when ever they're not or sometimes when they are he's looking at me. Every time we see each other in the halls we pass glances at each other. But not the kind like with a stranger. I can recall times he has done things to get my attention or point at me and say something to his friends. I told this popular girl that I trusted that I have a crush on him. She said, oh my gosh thatd be so cute! And he always looks at you.
I know there's something there, I feel butterflies when ever I pass him. I really like him. I don't want to ask him out because he might say no and never look at me again. But I want to at least somehow talk to him so he doesn't fade away. What should I do? Ps. I am 12 and I've never liked a guy as much as I like him.
Can anyone help me with my crush?
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man up bro you got this talk to him TINY RICK OUT
I have the same situation, I am 12 to. It is almost like your story but he is popular, he doesn't glance at me much. I really need help too. It is really hard because I am no social butterfly so I don't think I have a chance. If he looks at you like that talk to him, more then likely he will say yes.
You know a man loves you by the way he treats you.
I doubt this numb nut loves you. Move on. You may be missing out a real potential love while wasting your time on this.
And how do you define love?
Ever heard this?
Love is kind and patient,
never jealous, boastful,
proud, or rude.
Love isn't selfish
or quick tempered.
It doesn't keep a record
of wrongs that others do.
Love rejoices in the truth,
but not in evil.
Love is always supportive,
loyal, hopeful,
and trusting.
Love never fails!
Its so true and its in the Bible. Good stuff to live by.
good luck
So move on? I don't know, I mean he is not rude or anything like you said it says in the bible. I guess he doesn't like me that much since he doesn't really talk to me. But something just tells me that he likes me or has liked me. So I am not sure.
so honey follow your heart if you see he is so good for you so why not!go ahead girl
I'm in the same situation, same grade, same age, but I haven't told ANYONE! My crush and u have been friends since 4th grade, he's my next door neighbor, and no I don't think he's "hot" he's sweet and funny and the perfect guy, he doesn't know either (about my crush). Well enough about me... Try to be better friends with your crush, see if you have stuff in common. Hope this helps!
I have never had a boyfriend, or had someone like me that told me (i really dont think anyone likes me), but I partially and in the same situation EXACTLY as you are! I am 12, I have never liked anybody the way I like the boy I like. Though the boy I like is not popular, he is more of in the middle, he is not handsome really, I just like his personality. I also get butterflies in my stomach, but that is whenever my friends say his name. I have a question, do you talk to him? if you find out what he likes (ex. lacrosse, baseball, minecraft, basketball, soccer) you could research those topics and if you are ever sitting near him with one of your friends, you could start talking about that topic with your friend(s) and he might hear you and talk to you about it so it might later be a convo starter and in that convo you could tell him what you like so he could get to know you more. Hope this helps!
sorry about the mistakes.
I had a crush. Once. He was a strong kid. He played basketball and one time he got knocked unconscious. I was crying, telling him that I will be there for him, even if my parents won't let me. You should ask him how you feel about you. He should give you a clear answer.
I know all about girls/guys; you can count me in to answer anything. (After all, I am a girl. 15 years old.)
Hope this helps RiGhte.
I'm also about your age and think I might have an answer to your problem. I say, try to talk to him at some point, even though it might be embarrassing. Maybe "drop" your pencil when you walk by him in the hallway so he will pick it up for you. if that seems not so up your alley, compliment something that he did that you know a lot of people saw (so you don't seem like a stalker!). But if this boy hasn't gotten up the nerve to talk to you yet, I say move on. I know that is kind of harsh, but if he really does like you then he will make the first move. I wish you the best of luck!!!!:)
It has been over three months since you posed this question but i thought you may appreciate these real life experiences from others just like you:
“A young man who makes eye contact and has a nice smile and a confident walk would get my attention.”—Laurie..
“I had a major crush on a boy when I was 12, and when I got over it, I realized why I liked him. It was only because all my friends were interested in boys—and he was a boy. So there you go!”—Elaine.
It’s normal to be attracted to someone who is outwardly beautiful or handsome. The problem is, what you see isn’t always what you get. Because looks can be deceiving. The Bible states: “As a gold nose ring in the snout of a pig, so is a woman that is pretty but that is turning away from sensibleness.” (Proverbs 11:22) Of course, the same principle applies to boys
Infatuation feels like love. In fact, love includes romantic feelings. But the basis for each is entirely different. Infatuation stems from a superficial reaction to surface qualities. Also, it is blind to the other person’s weaknesses and exaggerates his or her strengths. As a result, infatuation is about as stable as a castle made of sand. “It doesn’t last long,” says a girl named Fiona. “You can be attracted to someone one day, and then a month later you feel the same way—but toward someone else!”
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Ok,I'm just like u and I'm 12 too.My crush is just like ur crush and what I do is go all out and text him that I like him and that he doesn't have to say yes.the next day he texted me he don't know how to reply but atleast I tried.U have to tell him u like him as it's the last year u guys may be in the same school cuz you guys will be graduating soon. Hope u da best.
Awhile ago I told my crush I liked him and that did not end out to well and I also asked him out but he said no and I so I've backed off but one of my friends like him now and I've tried to back off but I can't do it anymore what do I do? By the way I'm 12 too
I am the same age and in the exact same situation, except I have had a crush on him for like 3 years. Just go for it girl My friend learned the hard way if you just ignore the crush, it doesn't always end well. My friend waited to long and her crush asked out one of my other friends.
You're not a freak. I have almost the same situation. I hate it. But I like him so much and now I just don't know what to do. I've kept my feelings hidden for 2 and a half years. I can't keep it secret any longer.