I have literally had nightmares about girls, either hurting me, or even trying to kill me, but they don't in reality. When they talk to me in public I freak out and run. It just doesn't make any sense cause I like girls and want to get married, but with this going on I don't know if I can... Please tell me i'm not the only one like this and if i'm not can I please have an answer for this?
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I think everyone has a small or large amount of fear for the opposite sex, I think its fairly normal. I personally used to be terrified of men. But slowly became more confident towards things.. The fear of being hurt and the fear of commitment generally applies to this... Can also be you personally dont want to let anyone in.
Slowly build confidence by communicating with lets say your mum or sister or a friend and practice communicating and teach yourself to safely and confidently speak to a woman. Even if you explain that you are very shy and nervous maybe it will help.. you will get there :) Good luck
I like to think that our dreams challenge us to be honest with ourselves and true to who we are. Also that these dreams can often tell us what's gong well in our lives, as to what is not going so well. Maybe you have persistent dreams of girls hurtin you because you are not very good with girls. You should try to put yourself out there more, and experience new things. Your subconsious is trying to tell you that you need change, your mind wants change. You can most certainly still like girls. I think you just need to get over your fear.
