I have physical custody of our 6 and 3 year old children. We signed a separation agreement that states he gets visitation every Wednesday, and every other weekend. He has not once picked them up for the Wednesday visitation (which he asked for in the fist place!) and now all of a sudden, because Halloween falls on a Wednesday, he wants to have them. Does he have the right to skip all those Wednesdays and decide, because its in his favor, to take them? What penelty is there for him not abiding by the court order? What rights do I have, to stop him from taking them? What will happen to me if I don't give them to him? He only wants to be a father when it's convenient to him. I offered for him to come trick or treating with us in our neighborhood, but he declined. I live in Virginia. If anyone knows the law, please help me! Thank you!