Im a young girl. Im being picked on by a group of girls I once tried to help get threw alot of problems but as soon as I wasn't requires I have been getting nothing but agro since. They are telling other girls false storys about me. Getting them to shout at me in the street. The girls doing this are friends of the girls I used to be friends with. I cant go on social media without getting harassed. I can't go outside with the fear of being picked on. Ive distanced myself from my friends so that they dont get caught up in this. I don't want to go school. I dont want to eat. I try and make myself sick. I self harm, and everyday the trembling thought of suicide goes threw my mind without fail. I dont know what to do i need help.! Thank you.
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this is just me but im going threw the same thing and you know what i did i stood up too the girls and i told them "I dont care who you think you are but the only reason you are trying to embarass me is because your afraid that one day everyone will like me better than you because they would get tired of you bossing them around all the time and i would treat them like actual friends unlike you." try saying this
i may not be the person that can solve everything but let me tell you that there are people that care about you. and even tho i dont know you i do. and i have gone through simular things but dont hurt yourself. the people that do care will be heartbroken if they lost you. try finding sombody that is going through the same thing and with them be strong anf face against everybody else. and remember carma is around and one day it will hit them hard and people that sit there and bully other people dont have a life because they should be worrying about there lif instead of ruining everybody elses. i know you may not want to talk to anybody family wise about it but i promise everything will get better, try to pray to god and ask for help. i did and it really started to help. i hope this all gets better
You should not go and think that you should kill yourself. You should not. Everyone loves you just the way you are. you just need to accept that you're who you are. You are not who the bullies say you are. All you need to do is walk away from the bully, do not react or engage with them. that will only make things worse. just walk away!
I'm very sorry. My brother goes through the same thing every day. People cuss him out on the walk to lunch and they spread rumors about him doing whatever. He finally started to just tune them out and not listen to them at all. There are different ways to block certain people on social media. Stay close with your friends and do not commit suicide or self harm. Stay healthy, tell an adult or multiple adults.
Positivity is key, and knowing you important to a few circle of people around like family is what matters most because those are the people your life will always revolve and the bullies at school, you will eventually leave their space its not like your forever going to be in school or that particular one in this case. Just make your life count by promoting your own skills i believe it will keep you busy and happy too after knowing you can make something good out of yourself and thats all you need at the moment. Suicide has never been an option for the strong and you are strong.
I agree with KK, talk to your parents and make sure they realise how seriously this is upsetting you and driving you to despair. If you have a Church or Mosque then seek comfort in that environment and read your Bible or Quran to help you through difficult times by trusting in God.