There's this guy who i have been talking to for 3 months. He really really likes me and i believe we can go the distance but the only thing is i won't let him see me. He doesn't truly know why but its because i know i could give him my heart abd im scard to because i dont want to get hurt. Knowing that i could give him that power s scary. I want to see him but i dont know if i should tell him and we could work through it together or if i would just scare him off. Help?
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Look sweetheart you not going to scare the boy off. You are the answer to so many peoples questions and worries about there own love life! you really need to meet up with him though... i liked this guy for TWO WHOLE YEARS... and we never got anywhere because he wouldt meet up with me. i think you may find that there is so much fun in giving your heart to someone and spending time with one another. I am completely the opposite problem to you i love to see people and i love giving my whole life up for someone trust me your in a good place. And in the future you will find that this is the best skill to have there is an extent to it all! hehehe i really hope this helps x
same with me i have had a major chrush on this boy for years and he finally came around were going out now but thts cuz we hung out all the time dont be afraid to give a boy ur heart becuz if he really likes you u have no worrys becuz hell never break it thts wut happened with me and my bf he really did like me but he wuz shy so i had to meet him and make the palns but now were going out and hes never ever hurt me and never will if you love some one i say its worth the risk and maybe theyll like u back he tells me he loves me every day and i love tht feeling u no the one were u no ur loved by a boy i love tht feeling when u get butterflys in ur stomach from talking to a boy u like but tht doesnt happen any more because i will always be loved by my bf i hope it goes well
love havim98
I know what you feel my dear. Being scared to hurt all over again is very traumatic experience for us women. First thing to do is forget the past and start from a new beggining. You cannot leave through heart ache and pain, now is the time for you to meet and found a new love of your life.That guy maybe the one who will make you happy for the rest of your life, don't be scared lo be hurt again. Because after you fall and being hurt you can learn a lesson from it and tell to your self that next time you fall you will be stronger enough face new challenges in life.
For sure see him, but maybe try taking little steps. Let him know a piece at a time, like leaving a trail of breadcrumbs. If he bites, maybe tell him all. Love is so beautiful when you have it and receive it. Without it, or worst losing it, it becomes a battle back from a cold black empty space. But we survive, and life moves on.