Breakup!?

When i was dumped, it took me a year to really feel better, and even then it still hurt. But what made me get better was when I started to focus on myself again. I had time to go for walks because i wasn't calling my boyfriend all the time, i focused on being a better friend rather than being a better girlfriend. focus on the good things. And if you still feel like you should be with her, then talk to her about it, or a close friend. Don't do it in a creepy way, but tell her you still care about her. I did that for him, and it gave me a sort of closure.