my fiance broke up with me 10 days ago and moved all his stuff out that night. He wrote me an email 2 days later explaining he was having a mental breakdown and that he still loves me. He wont answer me emails though and I havent phoned his parents house yet. I dont know if i should move on or not?
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I see that could be a major part of his behavior & mood. Has he ever confied to you his childhood pass ?
Yes, I've known for a year and a half out of our 2 1/2 year relationship, I was the only one who knew up until recently when he told his parents this past summer and also started counseling.
That's a major plus that he felt the confidence to confide in you. How far would like this relationship to go ?
Well like I said he was my ex fiance, so I would like to marry him...
Well I certainly hope it works out for you guys. But it's gonna be a long haul until he's healthy. But with you at his side and his bed he will be just fine.
That's the thing though...I had to move to my moms because of the breakup and he moved to his parents, I just hope that he realizes that the break up wasn't necessary because I have loved through everything, never judged him. we had our rough times but I stuck by it because I didn't want to give up. I'm a mess just as we speak. Thanks for the advice.
Stressed but kept things to myself, he likes to make sense of things before he talks to other people. He is also seeing a counselor about childhood abuse. The counseling is bringing up all the emotions from the abuse to the surface again