We were arguing as you do, he continued shouting when I remained calm and tried to speak to him in a calm way, I then told him if he keeps shouting out daughter will get scared of him, he shouted some more then came right up to my face and told me to drop dead, I'm torn and feel completely heartbroken, he said I deserved it and was my fault he said it as he want to hurt me to get some space but I don't know if I can forgive him? Am I in the wrong? Was it my fault? I don't understand what's going on :/