We were arguing as you do, he continued shouting when I remained calm and tried to speak to him in a calm way, I then told him if he keeps shouting out daughter will get scared of him, he shouted some more then came right up to my face and told me to drop dead, I'm torn and feel completely heartbroken, he said I deserved it and was my fault he said it as he want to hurt me to get some space but I don't know if I can forgive him? Am I in the wrong? Was it my fault? I don't understand what's going on :/
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I don't know what you two were fighting about but I highly doubt it was all your fault. The way he reacted to you was completely inappropriate, and you would have every right to leave him it's not like you two are married, it's better to be single than to be in a abusive relationship.
I also highly suggest forgiving him. Forgiveness is an important part of the healing process, if you can't forgive it will leave a bitterness in your heart and may cause even more emotional and physical stress and unrest, it may even effect others around you, like your friends and family. If you want to give him second chance than you should, but if he lashes out like that again I suggest leaving him. Like I said, sometimes it's better to be single.