My boyfriend/partner of 11 years is literally throwing a tantrum because he doesn't want to go to a wedding with me. He's met the girl years ago, who happens to be a friend since high school, and he said she doesn't like him. He also says that since its on Saturday of the Thanksgiving break it eats into his free time and saying that he's been so busy that he just wants to relax. I am furious. He has known about this wedding for 4 months, but now that its here he is throwing everything my way to not go. Am i overreacting?