Boyfriend for 5 months, we met on POF dating site and I found that he still has account indicating single and I can see that he is on there twice daily on the way to and from work (indicates times he's online). We are in an established exclusive relationship and I have been told numerous times I am the one and he loves me, only one for him, etc. I have met his parents and friends and I would describe our relationship so far really good but my gut at times has told me something is off. What do I do?
I created a false account to monitor his activity.
Boyfriend has dating site account?
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Honestly if he was on POF and just talking to people and making friends then I wouldn't see a problem here. But like you said his account still indicated that he is "Single" then in that case I believe there is only possible 3 reasons.
1. He is trying to talk to other girls
2. Hes just a friendly guy and wants to make friends but he doesn't want people to know hes taken.
3. Hes just a friendly guy and wants to make friends *and he doesn't know how to change the relationship status to (In this case) "In a relationship".
Honestly you need to talk to him in person and sort this out because you feel like he might be up to no good. And I mean you need to talk to him soon because if he is actually not doing anything wrong behind and he finds out that you were checking up on him.. you guys might create another problem. Speak to him! Every couple should have serious conversations.. its a healthy thing to do! .