Ok my Sister's best friend is my huge crush. the crush's sister is my bestie. So one night I emailed him and we struck up a conversation. next thing I know, we're friends. I didn't know I liked him until he put his head on my shoulder once. My sister is jealous and torments me for it. So I told him I liked him, he says, ahaha so it's all true?. I told his sis and she handeled it better. she told me i was awesome, it was fine, and who she had a crush on. My sis will kill me unless I decide not to like him. But im not sure how,
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Well, first of all, your crush is around your age, right? I think that you definitely should talk it over with your sister, as personally, I think good girlfriends like your sister are more important (i'm a guy though). If you two can't agree with eachother, tell the guy that you two won't be able to work out. If he's a decent guy, he'll understand. Never go forward with it and keep it on the down low, as it will hurt your relationship, make you feel horrible, and your sister will find out soon enough.
Hope this helps, and best of luck.
well i think they should talk it over
Yikes.
It's great that your crush understands and your best friends is fine with it. Though I can't understand why your sister would be angered.
I suggest talking to her and asking why she's *really* mad. Jealousy is an awfully cowardly emotion that's just an excuse to get mad at someone. And honestly, it's not her option whether or not you decide not to like him, besides, it's not like you can just snap your fingers and wash away the emotions you had for him.
Stand up for what you think would work, and know that in the end, the choice is still yours, and yours only.
Thanks for all your consideration. But I cant talk it over, it would just be really awkward and my sis doesn't see him like that.