Im just 13 and im goin to have my best friens baby and he wont talk to me. He has been ignoring me for a week or two now, but i need to tell him im goin to have his chiled. I need help but i have no one to go to i live with my best girl friend but her folks dont really want anything to do with me she is there for me but i realy need her moms help right now what do i do ????
Best friend wont talk to me and Im goin to have his baby??????
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- 3+ months ago by gini13
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- baby, pregnancy, friends, best friend
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Try to text or call and leave him a voice message if he won't talk to you. He's an idiot for not talking to you. Just try every which way possible to tell him and if he still ignores you then just talk it through with your best friend. You can also got to a free clinic to get some help. I hope that everything works out for you and the baby. I would try not to give the baby up for adoption because a lot of those children feel like their parents didn't want them or that they are useless. Give it your all to get through to him so maybe even his parents will help you out since your friend's parents don't want to. Don't be embarrassed at school either just because you are pregnant. Chances are that most of those other girls have "done it" with someone and just didn't get pregnant. I wish you the best of luck!!!
P.S. I'm 13 too but my mom would kick me out of the house if I ever got pregnant before marriage... I hope everything turns out okay for you and the baby!
Well if he and his parents are that against you and your child then when the baby is born, have him sign over full custody. Then you can decide if you want to keep the baby. If you really can't take care of him/her then you would have to give him/her up for adoption. If you're Bff's older sister is old enough, then she can drive you to a clinic to get normal checkup's to make sure the baby is okay. Just try to get through this the best that you can and make the most of it. Just think- you're bringing a brand new life into this world! I am really sorry about your mom though. I wish you more good luck!!! (Start at least thinking of baby names to get your mind off of everything. Try to look at the bright side of things, no matter how hard that may be.)
He wants to have somethin with the baby it his parents are in the way but when i want to talk about it he just leaves and we talked this weekend amd whrn the baby is born we arent goin to see it the falster parents get the baby then thats what awe desided but they have to be local so i can help take care of it but would that sound lik the logical thing to do
I have done everything I can do ,and I didn't get kicked out my mom got a job and ididnt wont to move cause i knew I was prego. His parents dont want me to be anywhere near them just caushe got me pregnant and my bff and i liv with her older sis and her sis has been so suportev and helpin me but its i need the babys dad to help the most and i just dont know what to do anymor but i needto talk bout eaither keepin the baby or give it up for adoptionbut i dont know what to do any more