My best friend is mentally ill (it doesn't really affect the relationship, but I think she feels that I can't relate). Her parents are very controlling and protective; they are uncomfortable with spontaneous get-togethers and it's not the casual atmosphere I want. I don't have classes with her this year and barely ever get to see her. Also, she has a new boyfriend who she is spending increasingly more time with. She says that texting gives her social anxiety and for this reason we barely ever text. I am not satisfied with this relationship. I want to have a relationship with my best friend like the ones I see on TV, in the movies, and the ones that other people have. I want a casual friendship where we know everything about each other and can hang out whenever. I want someone who I can talk to 24/7 and someone who will always be there for me, never distant. I want someone to do everything with. Do I need a new best friend? How can I tell her what I want, and how can I make it a reality? Thanks for taking the time to answer.