Okay... So I was dating this great guy (or so I thought) and he was so nice to me. I knew him for two years and then I dated him. One day, he told me he wanted to break up with me because he didn't think our relationship would last over the summer. I didn't argue. I was devastated, but I didn't cry. I couldn't cry. I was with my guy best friend that I trust very much, but his mom was their, so I didn't want to tell him in front of his mom. So, I called my girl best friend when I got home and talked to her about it and she said he was such a dick for dumping me over a text. After two days of being split up, my girl best fiend and she asked me if she could date him! She said she liked him ever since they met. I was so furious, I threw my phone on the ground and screamed. I called her back after I calmed down and I told her that I had strong feelings for him still. She was like "Oh, okay." Then our conversation ended there. The next day, went to school and I saw them holding hands and talking like him and I used to. I was so furious and upset that she betrayed me. Luckily, my guy best friend was there at the right time and I cried on his shoulder... I completely ignored them for the rest of the school year, but them my girl best friend called me and said she had a dream of me doing suicide and that 90% of her dreams come true. Yes, I actually thought of suicide. So, we talked about how it was so fucked up for dating my ex-boyfriend which I still liked. She said she was just a rebound and nothing else. I felt bad for her and we became friend again... Every time I went to class or saw my ex-boyfriend in the halls, he would stare at me. Every time I saw him, I felt sick, angry, betrayed... Now, she apparently want s to beat the shit out of me because one of my friends said I wanted to beat the shit out of her. I never said that. She is talking a bunch of shit about me and my guy friend told me everything she said. She said that she could knock me out and fuck me up. I, personally, am tired of everything. What can I do? Do I break off our friendship or what? Please help....
Answers (2)
Just ignore this girl and know that if she's talking trash she's just being ignorent because she doesn't know the truth and if u still want to be friends just try to explain the situation when she's calmed down but If that doesnt work jUst ignore her and whatever you do DO NOT fight her or she'll feel that she won even if she loses the fight well best of luck to ya hope I helpef