So here's the thing, my best friend and I always hang out together. She's cute and she gets all the attention from guys, she has a list of at least 40 guys who want to go on a date with her. Everybody keeps telling me that I'm pretty, I'm not jealous, but I'm wondering why I don't get half of the attention she gets... It hurts even if I'm happy for her... Do you think I should take some space from her ?
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I don't think you should leave your friend just because of some negative feelings. You may not get as many guys but that's okay. Its nothing special to have 40 guys on you, in fact it may become an annoyance. All you need is one man who you love.
The reason she may get more guys though is because she has an attractive personality. Keep in mind its not only looks that guys are after.
If this isn't the reason, then I think you're tricking your mind into believing you're not jealous, yet you are. See, jealousy isn't a physical emotion but a neurological one that occurs whether you want to control it or not. When jealousy begins, you want to tell yourself (consciousness) that you aren't, but your body and mind know you are.
Either way it doesn't matter how many guys like you. Just find one that you like.
That must be hard to take. But there's many more guys out there. Just wait for the right one to come by.
Ok thanks for taking time to answer
People do have this thing that attracts others.
Nothing new!
The way men and women are in this life and time!
They think that the 1st. person who even looks at them!
Is the 1!!!!
You can't jump into a relationship!
You have to walk into it!
Relax!! Have fun together!
Try asking her if there is some guy she may not like to send him over to you!
The guy I liked told her yesterday he had feelings for her...