So, I met a guy online, and he is interested in me. I begun to like him but I backed off after he told me he still talks to his ex girlfriends and he babysits one of his exs' kid occasionally. He says this woman is his online business coworker, dated for a few years. I feel it is inappropriate to keep being close friends with exes unless there is absolute trust in each other with new romantic interest.What do you think?
Being close friends with exes?
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- 3+ months ago by sunflower...
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I think that it doesn't matter how random strangers feel anent a particular situation. You've stated your disapproval of this behaviour. You need to determine your willingness to overlook this, ask him whether he'd change (which might come off as fairly peremptory), or keep looking.
I don't even want to deal with exes. What I'm concerned about is a guy online. Does he live in your city? How long have you known him and have you met yet? You should have gone on your first date by the end of your first month. If he doesn't live in your same town forget him.
Just exactly how many exes does he have and is that kid he baby sits his?
I'm not a proponent of exes being palsy necause 80 percent of the time its just one of the two unable to let go and hoping to get back in their good graces again.